Sunday, July 11, 2010

Learn the Art of Conversation With Women and Have Them Eating Out of Your Hands

Submitted By: Chris Carter
(Dating)

For men, women are probably the most complicated creatures to deal with. Men would rather tinker with any gadget that they love in a corner than try to understand women. Most men think this is so because they have difficulties of dealing in a conversation with women, which is of course, the first step in knowing what is going on within the feminine psyche. If you are such person, better recall the things that you did when you tried to have a conversation with women—you may have had a mistake in one of your moves. Here are three tips on how to capture a woman’s attention through the art of conversation.

First, always be on the lookout on what hobbies she might be into. You can know something about this through the flow of conversation you will be having with her. The good thing about women is that they generally show their feelings more than men. One can easily spot hints on a woman’s emotion. Perhaps other women smirk when they find a topic distasteful, or laugh heartily regarding a joke that someone has shared. You should be attentive with these clues. If she has mentioned that she went out with some of her friends on a movie date, then you should ask her about what they have watched, and then follow up that question with what types of movies does she like. Apparently, other topics will stem from that conversation, and you should be smart enough to spot those topics that she goes gaga for.

Second, always put a little bit humor on whatever you say. Keep in mind that women love anyone who makes them smile or laugh. You can crack up a joke of your own, and then build up this topic to other subjects. On the other hand, some men are a hit with women even if they are not cracking up jokes. Other men have a natural sense of humor that just shows through the conversations that they share with others, and that is exactly what anyone should learn to do. It is best to find something comical and humorous with something that happens in the course of everyday activities, and make sure that these jokes are never offensive not only for women, but for anyone else.

Third, women love men with confidence. If you are brave enough to show confidence in the course of your talk, expect that you will get the woman that you want, hook, line and sinker. How do women know that you have enough self-esteem? This characteristic is shown in the way you talk, and how you handle yourself. For example, she inquires about the nature of your work, you can say something about the perks regarding your work, or what you really love about it, without being haughty about how much money you have made. Women love men who are sincere about themselves, and this is one of the key aspects that you should remember in snagging a conversation with women.

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Ideas On What To Do On First Date

Submitted By: Chris Chew
(Dating)

Most men on their first date with a woman they like tend to have butterflies in their bellies. They probably do not have any idea of what to do or if they do know, they will be wondering if their dates will like the program they have planned and so is nervous about it. Sounds familiar?

This is understandable since guys on first dates usually have the pressure of giving a favorable impression to their partners. So the way to solve this issue is not to think too much about it and have fun. When you have fun, she too will have fun and that will form a lasting and memorable dating experience for the both of you.

First dates can be fun since it is a way to gauge the compatibility and sexual chemistry of both of you and here below are some dating ideas on what to do on your first date to make it pleasantly enjoyable to you and your dating partner.

The key to success on your first date depends on how comfortable each one of you is during the date. So the things to remember here is to keep the date kind of laid back and low key.

You see, first dates should not be too elaborate nor expensive since there will be plenty of time for that if the first date kicks off well on the right footing. The venue is important and choosing one can be done with complimenting other dating ideas.

The key here is to remember to keep the date as less complicated as possible. Choosing an elegant yet simple restaurant is a good idea so that each party can have a relaxed unhurried meal while discussing further activities later.

To make the date more memorable, do something different like going for bicycle rides on the country side or going to an amusement park with thrill rides or something as simple as kite flying.

Dressing up tidily is an important ritual for the first date if not for anything else than simply respect for your partner. I am not saying that you should put on a tuxedo and bow-tie unless the nature of the date requires you to do so. Just dress smartly to fit the occasion will do. This will make her form a good impression of you. Take note that overdressing or seductive dressing is a definitely no-no on a first date.

Overdressing means that you will look out of place and is trying too hard to impress her and it's a real turn off to girls. Seductive dressing will imply that you are trying to turn her on to get under her skirt although that may not be what is in your mind.

Engaging conversation is an important part of the first date since once you open the gap on your face, you are already giving away a part of yourself. The dating game is a way that you can find out if you have anything in common with her or if both of you are compatible. So the first date is for you to put your best foot forward and while being your natural self.

Since this is the first date, there are certain conversational ethics and certain things better be left unsaid. Avoid subjects like your relationship with your ex-girlfriends or debates on political or religious issues.

So if you want to know what to do on your first date, the answer is just keep the date interesting and full of fun while being your natural self. Then if she is having fun too, it is now time to ask for another date.

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Sunday, May 30, 2010

Why Date a Russian Woman?

Submitted By: Mike Belch
(Dating)

Russian women are becoming more attractive to men in the west.(Dating) They are talented, good looking and educated with housekeeping skills to boot.(Dating) They are not very much concerned about a man’s outward appearance as long as he will be a good father and provide stability for the family. In order to find out what can be expected from marrying one of these women, it is important to understand a bit more about their background in regards to cultural norms and way of life.

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